Aidpage

To the attention of:

Barack Obama, US President;
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Mr.President,I have so many questions,& no answers.I dont understand if a man needs help,through any government operated program,he dont qualify,if he has no kids.We can get foodstamps,but if you dont have a home,how do you prepare you meals?How do you clean,orbuy clothes?How do you take care of youself? I am 50 years old.I have filled out job applications from South Carolina,to Tennessee,to,Florida.Anything from working on fishing boats,to loading docks.I have not recieved one response.Not even an enterview.Im living with my brother & his family.I dont know what to do.I tried filling out applications for govt.assistance,& it either cost to fill out the application,or Im turned away for the fact I have no kids.Mr.President,men are human too.I want to thank you,for you time,& concern,in this matter.You should visit a web-site called aidpage.com.Create an account,& look at all those people,in need of help,& they cant get any.It will almost make you ashamed to be an American.

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Post Open Letter to your Elected Representatives

After two years my girlfriend left, she is military as am I.  She was in a field training with the infantry and after three weeks there she came home and packed.  Took a girl that I consider mine, and our son.  I am completely lost, broke and so confused.  She gave so very few vague reasons for leaving other than she was confused and felt she didn't love me.  That night she was in his house.  I know that something happened while she was there.  I believe she will come home but she won't get into details about anything when we talk.  I love her more than my own life.  Literally.  I'm thinking it a lot, car crash, gun... but I can't move on in this world or the next without her.  I can't leave my two oldest children.  I just need to know from a female, at 20 with two children what is going on in her head and heart.  I'd like to chat if possible.  I have questions she won't answer and love that won't stop hurting.  Someone help me please. 

victims of relationship abuse, is this you? if you need advice or someone to talk to im here.

Where do I start I'm a christan mother 3 children and Im married, but which sometimes it feels like I'm not. My husband has been unemployed for awhile he just received his last unemployment check, I just became unemployed last month. We didn't even have enough to pay our rent this month, just got our 3 day notice, I done everything I can applied everywhere to try to get rehired to help my family get by. Its really hard when you have your children telling you that they are hungry before they go to bed. I think thats what keeps me going and trying, Im at the end with my husband because it seems like it doesn't bother him at all, cause he goes about his day as regular, in my heart I feel like my marriage is not going to last because of this. He has had so many opportunites to do something and he lets them go by. Our electricity is about ready to be shut off and he don't care, he wants to run the AC on all day and tells me not to worry about anything. But than at the end when its too late to do anything anymore he is sitting at the end of the bed crying because we're about to be homeless. I don't know what to do anymore my youngest is 7 and my middle one is 13 our oldest is about ready to finish highschool but she sees everything we're going through and goes into a depression, she use to be a cutter and I feel that this is going to send her back into doing what she was doing before. There are times when I just want to run away myself, but I go into my prayer closet and God helps me. I just don't know how much more I can withstand with all the things going wrong.

Looking for hope...

im always here to help and listen.i have been though some real rough times been homeless been in jail been on drugs ive been in need of help ive been abused by a few men, ive lived in a homeless shelter . ive been there , if you need someone to talk and for some advise talk to me.  im always home .. harley 21 

Hello everyone im a expecting mother and i dont know where to turn for help i have been trying to get everything ready for the baby i dont know where to get help finding a car i drive 50 each way to my doctors once or twice a week im not working at this moment and i have no idea where to find help i live with someone was trying to get housing though the state but as of now i have absoultly nothing if anyone can help or point me in the direction of someone who can help me in the toledo oh area i would appriciate it very much i need help in many aspects a car baby stuff and hopefuly all will work out if you have any ideas please id appriciate it

Hello everyone my name is Danielle and i am 23 years old. I have two beautiful children. My first is my son Rafael Flores 2 and my second is Autumn Flores 15.  Yes im sure you are thinking this sounds weird. I adopted my sister in llaw about a year ago to keep her out of foster care.  Im hear for help and support.  My Husband has gotten him self into alot of trouble and going to prison.  I have been left wit these two wonderful children but no way to support them and i am completely at a loss.  we are just days away from becoming homeless and i have never been so scared. I have no family support what so ever.  It is so hard asking for help.  I have a full time job and work with children who are in the system i love my job and enjoy working with those that need help.  That feild of work does not pay very much though but i amsocompassionate about my job i dont want to workelse were... worst yet about amonth ago i was in a very bad accident and broke my back in 4 places and shattered my neck. the doctors told me it was a miracle that i survived and i thank god every morning that i am still here, the crazy thing is 3 weeks later i had to go back to work to pay bills cause my husband just left us so ubruptly wit out any waarning.. thank you for taking the time to read about my struggles

Im 22 years old and believe im pregnant. My hours have been cut at work, my parents wont let me stay home with a baby. I got an abortion 5 months ago (didnt want to by the way). Only did it because my parents made me which wasnt fair. It was like they didnt respect what I wanted to do. So now, I have it set in my mind that if I am preg, I will never go through that experience again. But the problem is, I dont want to live with my boyfriend's mom.....heck no. I wanna be either home, in an apt by myself and or both me and my boyfriend. My friend advised me to go to social service but Im confused. Dont know which way to turn. I pray and pray that God will see me through this everyday. Any advice or suggestions on what move I should make? I mean I could live with my boyfriend at his mom's house but I really DONT want to.....at all.

ive been with my man well ex for seven years, he just left me for another b*^&^, he left me with nothing, I lost my job because of him, my car, my everything, and since he decided to leave, I cant afford my rent so will be recieving my eviction notice, im so lost, confused, and hurt, I KEEP ASKING MYSELF WHAT DID I DO WRONG, i NEED HELP!!!!!!!!!!!, I THOUGHT I WAS DOING EVERYTHING RIGHT AND HE PLAYED ME FOR SOME UGLY, DIRTY B**72, i KNOW I CAN DO THIS without him, i know i can, i just dont want to give up and say forget everything,

LET ME START BY GIVING YOU A LITTLE HISTORY.  50 YEARS AGO I WAS PLACED IN FOSTER CARE WHERE I WAS ABUSED PHYSICALLY, MENTALLY, AND SEXUALLY ABUSED.  I WAS THEN PLACED IN AN INSTITUTION FOR MENTALLY RETARTED AT THE AGE OF 9 UNTIL 18.  I WAS SENT TO A GROUP HOME UNTIL I TURNED 21.  SINCE THEN I HAVE COME A LONG WAY.  I WAS ADOPTIVE AS AN ADULT, AND I WAS NOT TAUGHT ALOT OF THINGS SUCH AS HOW TO BUDGET.  I AM ON SOCIAL SECURITY DISABILITY BECAUSE OF ALL THE MENTAL ABUSE I SUFFERED.  I WORK AT A HOSPITAL AS A CARE GIVER BUT I CAN ONLY DO THAT 8 DAYS OUT OF THE MONTH.  I AM HAVING TROUBLE PAYING SOME OF MY BILLS.  I HAVE NO CHILDREN, AND NEVER BEEN MARRIED.   AS A SINGLE WOMAN IT IS HARD TO FIND PEOPLE OR AGENCIES TO HELP YOU UNLESS YOU HAVE CHILDREN.  I HAVE CAR PAYMENT THAT IS ON THE LINE RIGHT NOW, SO THAT I CAN GET TO THERAPY AND WORK, ETC.  I LIVE CHECK TO CHECK AND THAT CAUSES US MORE STRESS, BUT THE BIGGEST STRESS IS NOT BEING ABLE TO FIND ANYONE TO HELP ME.

I have been in a relationship for 7 years and prior to the relationship I was married and my husband left me for another woman and it caused me to go into a deep depression, So I met this person and he was so good to me for awhile until the real person came out and thats when it became a issue, And I found out about his drug problem and then he end up going to jail by that time I had already fell in love. About a couple of day after he went to jail I found out I was pregnant and to this day he still going to jail but I love him so much. Please someone tell me what do I need to do? Because I am tired of him leaving me and my kids but if I leave him I will be hurt and if I continue I will be hurt also and I am confused please someone help.

i am a mother that just got divorced after being in an abusive relationship for 7 years. i am 25 and have a wonderful new family. problem is my boyfriend is in jail. i have a 5 yr old daughter and have become step mom to a 5 yr old girl, an 8 yr old girl and a 20 yr old son. all of us are really having a difficult time with him in there. i have no other family that speaks to me and neither does he. i need him out here. i can't do it all by myself. i have even tried to take my clothes off for money and can't seem to even keep enough food on the table let alone get him out. i am so lost and confused, where do i start. we are going to lose all of our stuff in storage soon and even our place to live. he is a super awsome guy that just made some wrong choices. please help

 JUST AN OLD MAN PASSING THRU TIME ENJOYING WHAT THE DAY BRINGS TAKING ONE HOUR AT A TIME ONE DAY AFTER THE OTHER SEEKING A BRIGHTER OUTLOOK FINDING MY WAY THRU THE DARKNESS WATCHING THE RAIN LISTENING TO THE STORM OF EACH DAYS PASSING AWAITING WHAT COMES NEXT THINKING OF IMAGINATIONS CONTEMPLATING THOSE PASSAGEWAYS THROUGH THE CAVERNS OF THE MIND AN UNUSUAL PERSPECTIVE MANAGING TIME AS EACH DAY FOLLOWS THE OTHER NO EXPECTATIONS

I am a full time mother who has a great job and goes to school part-time. I recently completed my Bachelor Degree in Psychology. I really want to help people however the pay is horrible. I cant find a public service job that pays. I am in the process of paying student loans, my home, electric, gas, water, food and just do not have the resources to do what I love. I really want to be a social worker or life-coach. I would love to go back to college and get a masters degree but it is financially unlikely.

I am a great mother and would love to spend more time with my son (6 months). Why is it so complicated for hard working people to get assistance from the government or other private entities. It seems like unless you are completly non-working you do not quality for assistance.

I hate to say it but financial assistance would benefit me more if I didn't work at all. It's sad! I could stay home with my son and rake in money. If I had no morals or goals - I would honestly consider it. There are so many people who take advantage of the system and sometimes I wonder why I am working so hard. Why does economy work this way................

denise82nm@aol.com 

Am a Rwandese boy aged 18, born in Ugandan refugee camp, I lost my parents 11 years ago and came to Rwanda, I have been struggling with my life alone, have no relative in Rwanda.

I've been in secondary school for five years and  am finding my way to finish high school, i have been working while schooling but i've lost my job and i have 2 weeks to the registration as a candidate to sit  for national exams, i have no money for rent food.

             Please am asking for some one that is willing to surpot me to finish high shool with schoolfeescause the only option ihave is to go in boarding and secure problems of rent and food. Am asking my uncle but he doesn't reply me at all and am like confused every mornig i wake up, am worried about were to get money for food am leaving at a friend's am just thinking of the years i,ve spent in school

but the last one is defeating me, please help me. 

Need blankets and pillows drapes towels and washrags house hold things to make ends meet... i get dissibility and my husband works part time we just cant make the ends meet we could use help with food of all kinds if possible thank for caring Please contact me at

PrittiKittiKiss@aol.com

I will asnwer as soon as i can ....

Severely Depressed......